You found it.
The Package Acceptance Program
The problem isn’t your dick.
It’s what you think about it.
Anonymous & Secure.
HUNDREDS OF LIVES IMPROVED
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Folks are putting themselves out there.
“Loved the course, man! As a grower not a shower, I definitely got more confidence.”
- Dave, Portland
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Folks are Getting Laid.
“I’ve stopped hiding and really underestimated how many guys love small willies or couldn’t care less about my size.”
- Matthew, NYC
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Lives Changed.
“I can genuinely say you’ve educated me and changed my life for the better.”
- Miguel, Miami
THE PROGRAM
THREE WEEKS.
BIG CHANGES.
Each week teaches you the tools to tackle a different aspect of penis-size insecurity.Dismantle the lie
Pull apart the "bigger is better" myth until you stop operating from a false premise.
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Stop the thoughts
Learn techniques to change the way you think about your penis.
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Actually enjoy it
Turn your attention away from how you think you're being seen and toward what feels good in your body.
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AS SEEN ON
Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions Podcast
The Package Acceptance Program caught their attention. Phil joined the podcast to talk about why queer men struggle with size insecurity and what actually fixes it.
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PHILLIP MINER, CREATOR
BUILT BY SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS THE ISSUES
Designed and led by Phillip Miner, queer researcher and dedicated advocate for body acceptance.
Over the past 8 years, Phil has helped countless men shift their relationships with their bodies through practical strategies and a deep understanding of transforming body image and self-worth.
He’s smaller than average. This program is how he got through it and how you can too.
WHAT YOU GET
DESIGNED FOR BUSY LIVES
Learn at your own pace, with short lessons and structured guides that make real change doable.
✔ 9 video lessons (3 per week, 10-15 min each)
✔ 3 weekly check-in guides
✔ Lifetime access to all materials
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
THINGS FOLKS WANT TO KNOW
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Penis-related issues don’t stem from a single problem. So, the program addresses three distinct psychological barriers:
1. Cognitive distortions about penis size. Most men operating from the belief that bigger is better have never examined where that belief came from or whether it holds up. The program uses myth deconstruction to dismantle the cultural narratives driving that assumption.
2. Automatic negative thoughts about your size. The program applies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques specifically targeting the self-critical internal dialogue about your penis size. CBT is one of the most extensively researched psychological interventions in existence, with a strong evidence base for exactly this kind of intrusive thought pattern.
3. Dissociation during sex. The program addresses this using Somatic Therapy techniques to rebuild your relationship with your body, alongside Mindfulness-Based interventions with a specific evidence base for improving sexual presence.
Each of the three modules targets one barrier. They are designed to be completed in sequence over three weeks.
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The program was built for queer men experiencing penis-related issues. That is an intentionally broad category.
It includes men who turn down sexual encounters out of anticipatory anxiety, men who are present in bed but mentally absent, men who avoid queer social spaces, and men who have withdrawn from dating and relationships.
You do not need to identify with every pattern. If you recognize yourself in any of them, the course was built with you in mind.
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No. The program does not address physical size and does not include any physical interventions.
It is designed exclusively to change how you think: about your body, during sex, and about what other men actually want.
Participants who have seen results did so without any change to their anatomy.
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No prior experience is required or assumed.
The interventions are presented in plain language and are designed to be completed independently.
CBT and somatic techniques are applied here as structured exercises, not as clinical treatment. The mindfulness components do not require meditation experience.
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No.
You will not be asked to create a public profile, share on social media, or identify yourself in any community.
The purchase appears on your statement as P.M. Pursuits.
BEGIN TODAY
REAL, LASTING CHANGE STARTS NOW
LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT
“THANK YOU. I wish I’d encountered you as a young gay man with body shame.”