Stop Letting Your Size Define Your Life
The Starter Package is the free first step in the Package Acceptance Program, the 6-week course built to help queer men stop comparing, shut down shame, and feel more confident during sex, dating, and daily life.
No Credit Card. Private & Secure. Anonymous.
You’re Not Alone
Feeling like you don’t measure up doesn’t just cause anxiety—it makes you angry.
You compare.
You overthink during sex.
You expect rejection before it happens.
And you’re pissed that something you didn’t choose gets to mess with your confidence.
But it’s not just you.
Half of all people fall below the average.
The problem isn’t your body— it’s what the culture taught you to believe about it.
No pressure. No payment. Just help.
What You’ll Learn
Day 1 – Why You Feel This Way
Understand where size shame really comes from—and why it’s not your fault.
Day 2 – What They Actually Think
Unpack how fear of judgment warps connection—and how much of it is just assumption.
Day 3 – Change Your Comparison Group
Learn how to shift what you’re exposed to so you stop feeling like an outlier.
What People Actually
Say After Doing the Work
What You Get In the Starter Package
3 short video lessons (5 minutes each)
One thing to do per lesson to help you change your relationship with your size
Free lifetime access
No credit card. No commitments.
Who It’s For
You’re stuck in comparison and can’t turn it off
You’ve been judged—or just assumed you would be
You’re not trying to love your dick—you just don’t want it to hold you back anymore
Ready to Feel Different?
About the Creator
Designed and led by Phillip Miner — queer researcher, creator, and dedicated advocate for body acceptance.
Over the past 6 years, I’ve helped countless men shift their relationships with their bodies through my nudist project, Natural Pursuits, and one-on-one coaching where I taught practical strategies and a deep understanding of how shame, sex, and self-worth intersect.
While researching this course, I found out I’m in the 20th percentile for length. That little factoid hit my ego hard. I thought, “I’m that small?!”
But as I started talking to past partners while building the program, something surprising kept happening. Before I could even finish explaining the project, they’d stop me and say: “Wait… do you think you’re small?!”
The disconnect between what I thought about myself and the impression I left on people I actually had sex with was striking.
The research gave me an answer. The majority of erections fall between 4.5 and 5.8 inches. That means nearly 70% of us are within just over an inch of each other. The difference between “average” and “below average” is nowhere near what we’re made to believe.
The way we think about size exaggerates everything. I let my perception of my penis hold me back for most of my life—from connection, from intimacy, from feeling good in my own skin. And that distortion is exactly what this course is meant to undo.
I’ve been where you are. The “Starter Package” was designed to be the first step of the Package Acceptance Program, which is designed to address different aspects of how our size can hold us back.
It’s how I got through it—and how you can too.
The Starter Package is a free 3-day intro course on self-image and penis acceptance. Through short videos and guided activities, you'll explore where pressure comes from, how it shapes your confidence, and what you can do to feel more at ease in your own skin.